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  • author ( 57, woman | Alpharetta, GA, USA )

    Up for suggestions- it is nice to go somewhere to be able to spend time and get to know the other person

  • author ( 61, man | Upland, CA, USA )

    Someplace quiet with nice romantic music playing in the back ground where we can sip on some wine and just enjoy each others company.

  • author ( 58, woman | Phoenix, AZ, USA )

    A nice coffee shop or other casual environment. I am pretty mellow and don't have expectations of first meetings. Now if we hit it off the next date I would want something more.

  • author ( 59, woman | Phoenix, AZ, USA )

    happy hour just to meet for cheap apetizers, coffee shop, gosh just about anything to just meet and try to get to know each other.

  • author ( 44, woman | Sun City, CA, USA )

    I like to keep it simple. Yogurt or coffee, even breakfast is ok. If the interest is mutual we can always plan from there. Simple is better in case we both need to make a quick exit. =)

  • author ( 47, woman | Ozark, MO, USA )

    My favorite first date is good conversation and coffee! I think that going to a movie on the first date is SO impersonal. The first date is when you should be taking the time to get to know one another.

  • author ( 54, man | Mesa, AZ, USA )

    A quiet get together where we can get to know each other. It would be great if we hit it off and talk for hours.

  • author ( 63, woman | Richardson, TX, USA )

    My idea of a first date would be to meet at a coffee house. I would be the one with an empty vase next to my computer on the table. You'd be the one with a flower in your hand. We could talk over a couple cups of coffee...  see more >>

  • author ( 59, woman | Tarboro, NC, USA )

    I think a public place where we both feel comfortable and can spend some time talking and getting to know each other. Maybe a coffee shop or outside cafe.

  • author ( 62, woman | Sedro Woolley, WA, USA )

    A small coffee shop in the early afternoon , quiet so we can talk and experience each other. You should come casual and relaxed, show the real you. If we hit it off - well the evening is open!

  • author ( 63, woman | South Killingly, CT, USA )

    A popular shopping area/mall is a great place to meet for the first time. There is the potential to sit and chat over a cup of coffee. When things go well we can start walking about, window shop and think out loud about...  see more >>

  • author ( 60, woman | Schenectady, NY, USA )

    My first date would include meeting face to face at a food establishment, chatting away on good conversation and taking the time to ask questions about each other. I would hope that there would be some sort of spark, but...  see more >>

  • author ( 51, woman | Portland, OR, USA )

    Going for a cup of coffee and a walk in the park while we discuss our likes and dislikes trying to get to know one another and see if we're a good match for each other.