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  • View author's info ( 20, Man | Naval Air Station Jrb, TX, USA )

    I would meet with you at a nice cafe and we could just talk and get to know one another. I want to be as open with you as I can and hope the same for you without pushing each other out of our comfort zones.

  • View author's info ( 41, Man | Denver, CO, USA )

    A first date needs to be neutral and in a safe open space for both people. It should be intimate enough for us to talk but also public enough for both parties to feel comfortable so we can get to know one another with no...  see more >>

  • View author's info ( 56, Man | Novato, CA, USA )

    Check each other out, what else? They want 200 words, crap I'm tongue tied, which is very unusual for me. I'd think I'd lean back and say nothin' for the first hour, or gaze deeply into each other's eyes, ruminating I've...  see more >>

  • View author's info ( 21, Man | Northampton, England - Northamptonshire, GBR )

    My idea is a meet up at a cafe in the town centre , have a little chat and get to know one another if interested of course

  • View author's info ( 41, Woman | Friday Harbor, WA, USA )

    Given the distance between us, seems like a zoom/video coffee meet up might be a good plan if that sounds good to you? A little live conversation can answer many questions, and reading someone's face beats texting and ju...  see more >>

  • View author's info ( 57, Man | Bromley, England - London, GBR )

    We can get a coffee & have a walk along the park getting to know each other and see how we progress to see if we click x

  • View author's info ( 61, Man | Hobson, MT, USA )

    how about we see if we build chemistry and meet up for lunch or coffee or we can take a long walk on the beach while holding hands and making each other laugh

  • View author's info ( 49, Man | Portland, OR, USA )

    coffee, water, soda, whatevs. Let's talk a bunch and walk - this is Portland...pick a spot and it'll be fun :) I'm a s*cker for real talk and the mushy stuff but don't overwhelm. I'm comfortable with me and I'm very open...  see more >>

  • View author's info ( 22, Woman | Aberdeen, Scotland - Aberdeenshire, GBR )

    I'd be happy just going for coffee to start off with honestly. We can build up to something fancier from there.

  • View author's info ( 69, Man | Bridgton, ME, USA )

    I would like to meet and have a simple cup of coffee or tea or lunch and just get to know each other.

  • View author's info ( 62, Woman | Saint George, UT, USA )

    I think after a few conversations it would be nice for both of us to plan something together that makes us feel comfortable.

  • View author's info ( 56, Man | Saint Petersburg, FL, USA )

    Something simple and somewhat public. There are some great coffee houses in downtown Saint Petersburg. Brew D licious, Bandits...etc. First dates are stressful enough without adding to it. There should be an easy and res...  see more >>

  • View author's info ( 56, Woman | Lincoln Park, MI, USA )

    For the first date, I prefer a place to get to know each other better and not be distracted by some activity; Instead, I prefer an open area where you can just relax and spend quality time talking to each other so we can...  see more >>

  • View author's info ( 52, Woman | Asheville, NC, USA )

    I think it's very important to meet in person in a low stress situation. Such as meeting for tea or coffee and seeing if we like each other's company in the real world.

  • View author's info ( 20, Man | Reading, England - Berkshire, GBR )

    We'd probably head down to a local cafe and have a coffee together, Getting to know eachother a little better. Because you know what they say, Coffee brings out the best in everyone!